"Everyone probably feels this way, but things don't always go as planned, no matter what you do.
Even with hard work, you might find yourself spinning your wheels, or you might be misunderstood or have bitter experiences.
As a person in the early stages of old age, please forgive me for speaking from experience.
What I've come to realize is that things will happen as they will.
It may seem like a careless statement at first glance, but it's not.
Accepting the situation that things will happen as they will can reveal a person's true worth.
Apart from work, I am busy dealing with various things simultaneously, and while I am willing to work hard on problems that I can affect,
I realize that there are many situations where no matter how hard you try, things don't improve.
With true wisdom, not shallow knowledge, things start to look different.
Becoming able to view things from a broader perspective seems to change the difficulty of living.
I am grateful for realizing (or being made to realize) this. It lightens the heart, after all."