Around me, there are quite a few people with ADHD and ASD, avoiding specific expressions.
I don't mean that I work in such schools or facilities.
They range from kindergarten children to seniors turning 90; they exist around me.
I myself grew up in an ordinary household, so their words and actions have been a continuous surprise.
At some point, I was somewhat troubled by these differences, but my natural cheerfulness and rough character
made it pass without focusing on the essence of the problem, thinking, "People are diverse, after all."
Their existence could be seen quite negatively if perceived negatively. I think significant effort is necessary to adapt well to society.
It also leads to the question of how people without ADHD or ASD should perceive those with these conditions.
It's natural to feel somewhat uneasy about this. I've tried to think that way. And while I tend to get irritated with them,
I try to have a different perspective.
They may lack sociability, but they are people with powerful tools: "Curiosity," "Rich Imagination," and "Strength under actual conditions."
Having thought this way for decades, can't their abilities be used beneficially in society？
Whether my thoughts were correct is unclear, but I feel like I've found a way to manage my ongoing relationship with them somehow.